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K.L. Rockwell's avatar

I am definitely a picker…not gonna trust that job to anyone else! 💜

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

I know you’re a picker!! 🥲

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illustr8d's avatar

right there with you. reason: same.

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Mary B's avatar

Thanks for introducing me to the U Cut world of lavender. I must confess that when I used to grow lavender in my garden, I never cut it, I just looked at it. (Does that make me a lavender looker?) Great read of a Saturday evening in Texas. P.S. Your family dynamic sounds like fun. :-)

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Thanks Mary! You are a Lavender Looker 😄 I like that category!! I only had a vague notion of this before going to this Pickery (made up word? 😅)

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Mary B's avatar

Oh, Pickery! Yes! I will use that word this week (somehow). 😅 It's a good name for a grocery store!

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

There is a grocery store in the Midwest called “Pik-N-Save” that we would always used to giggle at.

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Shellee Renee's avatar

Brilliant! I hope you were a beacon of change for the lavendudes and they'll sideline like you next time!

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Lavendudes!! I love it :-)

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Emmy's avatar

I am a lavender order by mailer. When this post was in it's infancy, I had been trolling the internet looking for decent home fragrances...like potpourri or those stick things. I was coincidentally looking for lavender as it is my favorite floral scent, but it's tricky.

The Rockwells were at the farm as I was pausing the search to take a look at substack and I'm like YES PERFECT. A quick web search, they have a shop, order placed and TWO DAYS later, my home is fragrant with the exact lavender ...and I didn't have to do a danged thing.

That said, I'd be both picker and holder because guys I know would be helpful and decent, but they honestly really don't want to. It's like taking them into a fabric or yarn store.

P.S. the word you are looking for about how the fragrance hits you is 'asrtingent'...both bitter and acidic, but your brain translates that into 'clean' or at least mine does.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Emmy, you are a Lavender Orderer 😁 New Category!! Glad you were able to get it! Pretty cool place 😄

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Emmy's avatar

Astringent...if I could spell.

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Matthew Haviland's avatar

I bet the men held the baskets because they felt like they should carry the load, but then the situation was that that made them the lesser exerter of force in the interaction, because picking takes more work, but if they're letting the lady carry the basket, then the load is too much, and . . .

Lol. Strange questions.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Dude, that's way deeper than I went LOL!! Personally, at this point in my life, I'll hold a lavender basket and a purse together and not give a damn! But, the allergies!!

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Matthew Haviland's avatar

There you go, there’s your greatest weakness! Lol.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Lavender Allergies, like water to David Dunn in Split!

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Matthew Haviland's avatar

Was that the weakness of the Split guy? Man, I saw that so long ago. M Night has gotta change up his stuff, lol.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Yeah, originally from Unbreakable. Love that movie though, but yeah you are right on that point

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Matthew Haviland's avatar

OHH, Bruce Willis. I was thinking the guy with the short hair or, then, Samuel L. Jackson. Okay, lol, Yes!

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Matthew Haviland's avatar

Oh, man, Unbreakable was awesome. Yeah, no, I like Shyamalan, generally. Pop in one of his movies, and it’s a better decision than most.

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Logan Darrow's avatar

I once dragged my husband to an entire Lavender Festival in Sequim, Washington, on the Olympic Peninsula.

Once you get to Sequim, there are no problems finding lavender farms open for business because there are many of them. One right after the other.

And surely my husband was not the first to suggest that once you've seen one lavender farm, you've seen them all.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

So he’s a lavender holder 😅 Or perhaps more like me, A Lavender Picker Watcher Wannabe!! 😂 I like lavender, but don’t think I could handle a full on festival. Sounds like there may be more lavender farms up in your neck of the woods. Here it seems more cottage industry.

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illustr8d's avatar

I want to go to this.

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BEE Channel's avatar

This was hysterical. LOL

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Thanks Amber 😄

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BEE Channel's avatar

You're welcome!

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MamaForestCritter's avatar

I just grow lavender on my porch.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

So you're not either a lavender picker OR a lavender grower. You are THE lavender Farmer!! :-)

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Nur Nadar's avatar

I find this repeated trend of you posting plant slaughter on your page to be deeply reprehensible

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

😂😂 I need help!!

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Misty Evans - Storyteller's avatar

Going to a U cut lavender farm was on my bucket list this year, but the universe had other ideas. I’m hoping to get to one next summer. This was a great story!

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

Thanks Misty! Hopefully you can get there next year 🪻

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illustr8d's avatar

I'm a picker. No doubt. I know what I want.

I am also a lavender lemonade drinker. And I like to make lavender simple syrup so I can have more lemonade with lavender.

I love lavender. Love. Love. Love.

Also, I'm probably moving somewhere in your neck of the woods in a year or less and I'm realizing I need to just put all of these places in some sort of file because now I most go there.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

I’ve really started coming around to lavender over the years. For a while we had a steamer that put the oil into the air for sleeping.

You’ll love it here. It’s great, and that lavender farm is really there! Although another really good one is “Durant” in Dundee. https://g.co/kgs/h3cgBUv

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illustr8d's avatar

I know I will. I'm looking forward to the move. Lots to do between now and then but I really want to be there.

I need seasons.

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Maggie Jon's avatar

How the fuck did I miss this gem ❤️ Hilarious 😂

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Jill Shepherd's avatar

I once cycled through miles of lavender fields in the south of France, but I had been “tasting” wines at various wineries and subsequently fell over into the lavender field, shattering my very expensive bottle of Chateau Neuf de Pape, and bleeding out a massive offering of wine to the lords (or ladies?) of lavender. Ever since then, I’ve felt I have been granted a free pass to pick all the lavender I desire.

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

That sounds like a good reason to me!! We have always wanted to go see the lavender farms of France

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Jill Shepherd's avatar

That was in 1987, after my semester in London! I’m sure the wine makers have kept it from being developed though.

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Leslie J's avatar

This is a great story! We moved from the Willamette valley over 20 years ago (where I attended WOSU and sneezed to and from class all day every day -grass allergies) to near Spokane. One of the few things that grow well here are lavender... but yes, lots of bees. 💕

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Adam Rockwell's avatar

The bees were crazy that day!! (But the lavender honey is quite good 😊)

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Monica P.'s avatar

Picker. You need to cut on an angle. Some men wouldn’t be that precise.

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My Soul-Based Life's avatar

Well that was a very enjoyable Sunday read thank you very much! -that sign killed me about death and whenever you're with someone in a sundress time slows down. I am likely a picker, picker watcher and most often just a lavender fondler and sniffer.

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